Leaders sacrifice first, not go first. It is not about who stands upfront, but rather who faces danger first. For example, military fields are full of heroes who sacrifice their lives for their team and others, but do not forget that not every leader is labeled as so. Which means even when your father sacrifices his time and energy to provide you with food and a place to stay, it is a sign that he is a great leader. Now after realizing that, please understand that anyone can be a great leader, but it is not easy. It requires having the potential to allow others to cross the bridge first to the safe side.